Monday, June 30, 2014

AU to ID


One of the greatest components of our life is our community.  The friendships we have made in Boise have exceeded all expectations, and we are extremely grateful for these relationships in our lives.  Sophie and Cameron exhibit joy, excitement, and unbridled enthusiasm for their friends, too, and Doug and I marvel at the ease with which all four of us have connected with new friends.

strawberry picking buddies 
Cam realizing the perks of having an older sister... her friends...

sibling staredowns

"shaving cream party" 


One of my favorite friends... apparently we even dress alike. 
first attempts without training wheels

Our community of special people expanded yet again this past weekend when Australia came to Idaho.  Doug's cousin, Bill, his wife, Meera, and Sam and Maya flew up to Boise as part of their American holiday.  They are enjoying Disneyland, San Diego, Chicago, and New York during their 4-week vacation, but they graciously flew up to Idaho as part of their adventure! Doug and Bill hadn't seen one another for nearly 15 years; within that time, both cousins lived in various parts of the world, established careers, married (amazing and beautiful) women, and had adorable and bright children. Once reunited, we all had the most wonderful weekend together.  The kids clicked and bonded like only family can do, the adults caught up and laughed and appreciated one another's company, and we got to show them a new side of America! It was one of the most enjoyable and seamless weekends we've had with guests! The daddies shared stories from their childhood, they went on a bike ride together, and they picked up right where they had left off years ago. Doug and Bill could be brothers! It was so sweet to introduce Sophie and Cameron to more Australian family.  


"Go Daddy Go!"
Doug's cheering section for his triathlon




Fast Friends/Family

too much cuteness to handle




No trip to America (... Idaho...) is complete without a trip to Cabela's! 
And no trip to our house is complete without Doug's homemade pizza! 


Our friendship with this special family will continue.  And as, Sophie said, "Since they got to come to our house, that means we get to go to their house soon."

A strong community is vital to joy as a person, success as a family, support as a parent, and service to others.  Time spent sweating up a mountain trail, laughing over a beer, dreaming of the future, listening to one's fears, teaching their children, encouraging the next adventure, sharing stories and swapping memories... these are the friendships worth investing in and appreciating.  Thank you to Bill and Meera and their sweet children for reminding us that having a community of family and friends all over the world is such a wonderful gift.

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Whitfield Updates: sweat, tears, and laughs



#1.  Grandma and PaPa spent the weekend with Sophie, Cameron, and Grady while we all joined with friends to run the Sawtooth Relay in Sun Valley.  This was such an incredible and fun experience.  My brother, our fearless team captain, deserves much thanks for organizing our relay team and boldly tackling the hardest leg of the relay, and my thoughtful [pregnant] sister-in-law, our fearless team volunteer, deserves even more thanks for supporting our team.  Doug knocked his two legs out of the park, and I'm convinced that he gets stronger and fitter (ie. hotter and hotter) with age.  He was one good-looking, sweaty man.  Doug was also so sweet in his encouragement and praise of me during the relay.  I was really proud of my results (and our whole team's for that matter!), and it was great to complete this relay side by side with my D. While we ran hard, my parents worked hard spoiling all three kids! Everybody had an adventurous weekend!





#2.  Happy Father's Day to Doug! Doug and I drove home from the Sun Valley relay the morning of Father's Day to spend the rest of the day with the kids and my parents.  Doug takes care of all of us in such a thoughtful, protective, and adoring manner.  We couldn't be more appreciative of him. I am so blessed to not only have had the best father in the whole world but to have married the best man to make babies with :)



#3.  Unfortunately, Father's Day was a bit interrupted by a sick cat, and we had to make the tough decision to euthanize our Louie.  Louie was an annoying, pain-in-the-butt cat, but we loved him for nearly 11 years.  He was sweet and tender to Doug and to me, sleeping on my pillow every night of his life and cuddling under Doug's arms every morning.  He let Sophie pick him up and cuddle.  And Cameron always announced our arrival home yelling "Louie, we're home!" while running into the house to chase him.  Louie probably had the best year of his life this past year in Boise since we let him experience the great outdoors a little bit.  It was heartbreaking to watch Sophie process this first real loss in her life--- Doug had to leave town for work, Grandma and Papa had just been dropped off at the airport, and Cameron had run into the house yelling "Louie, we're home!".... it was too much for Sophie to handle, and my sweet, sensitive little girl collapsed on the laundry room floor sobbing for her cat.  While Doug and I have a good life perspective (and we know where pets rank in the scheme of life), we were still sad to introduce this concept of death and loss to our kiddo's lives.  And we were sad to lose the buddy we had loved for over 10 years.



#4.  On a much lighter note, Cameron continues to crack us up.  He knows exactly how to annoy his sister, and he does so regularly.  He pushes all of her buttons until she explodes, and then he smiles this sweet smile because he knows that she is overreacting  and her ensuing tantrum is actually naughtier than his original behavior that bothered her.... it's a cycle, and he manipulates the situation (and my subsequent reactions) with his dimple and huge smile.  He's a rascal!

Exhibit A: While playing with cars and trucks, Cameron ever-so-slowly leaned back until he was laying on top of Sophie.  It didn't hurt her, but she was annoyed and began screaming and kicking while he just lounged back holding his cars in the air and smiling. Victory.


Umbrella protection from the sprinkler
Exhibit B: He has started kissing me twice--once on either cheek--- to get what he wants.  "No nap, mommy." (kiss, kiss).  "One more snack please" (kiss, kiss).  It's horrible because I melt and give in to his sweet requests.  I am wrapped around his 2-year old finger.

Exhibit C: Speaking of his age, he now answers that he is two and a half... because he has heard Sophie clarify that she is 4 1/2.  We have laughed and joked so many times about his response that he now only says he is 2 1/2 years old because it frustrates Sophie so much.  He will answer and then turn his head and smile at her because he knows she is going to react. And boy, does she react and then she gets into trouble.  He provokes her into emotional breakdowns!

Exhibit D: Cameron thinks it's hysterical to call family members by their wrong names.  "Hi, Daddy!" (said to me).  "Hi, Mommy.  Bye bye Mommy!" (said to Doug).  He laughs and laughs.  But, if we turn the tables and call him by the wrong name, he replies, "No, I Cam." He has a serious face and doesn't think it's funny that we don't know his correct name.  Perhaps we deserve this response since we legally changed his name at 3 months of age... one never knows when D and E will wake up and start calling one of their children by a new name.

Exhibit E: Our tough, funny guy has many chinks in his armor though...one of which is his deathly fear of flies and bees.  He will scream a loud, guttural, barbaric yelp if a fly comes near him.  Summers in Idaho bring a lot of flying insects, so he will be forced to confront his fears soon.  He has figured out how to use this fear to his clever advantage though.  He will scream in his crib, refusing to sleep, yelling "Mommy! A Fly. Help please.  Fly.  Fly."  He pronounces fly like "fu-why."  So, it sounds cute and sad and pathetic, and again, I cave and always go back into his room for an extra cuddle!


One of these children could be a future elected official dedicated to public service.  And the other child will be the one who thinks it's funny to teepee his sister's desk on her first day in office.

Monday, June 9, 2014

E Time



I spent three nights in Chicago this past week with one of my dearest friends, Karen. Karen and I met when we were both studying abroad in York, England. We were two homesick American girls destined for friendship.  We both became high school English teachers, were both in eachother's weddings, and both made the decision to leave our amazing careers to stay home with our children.  Our lives have contained so many parallel storylines, and I'm blessed to have been able to explore Chicago with her and recharge my batteries.  She returned to Kansas City and I returned to Boise with full bellies, newly painted toenails, a few new clothing items, gratitude for our husbands who lovingly spoiled our kiddos, and a renewed appreciation for this stage in our lives.






It was the perfect kickoff to summer.  Now the kids and I have serious business to complete: checking off items on our Summer List.

stuffed animal tea party
outdoor drawing time


writing stories



HIKING!!


Hydrating is serious business. 
Our hike had everything a good hike with a 2- and 4-year old should have: fruit snacks, water bottles, laughter, sweat, tears, blood, dirt and dust in every crevice, sharing and taking turns, not sharing and not taking turns, pushing and shoving, running and skipping and singing, walking independently, being carried by mommy, amazing and beautiful views, appreciation for "fun mommy" being home from Chicago, whining and complaining and wishing for "fun daddy" to be with us... but in the end, we added another sticker on our summer list to signal completion of one of our bucket list items.  

E Time is amazingly important, but nothing beats Mommy Time. 

(Even when I have to clean this rascal...):